The Power of Vulnerability
I recently found myself in a coffee shop bathroom, taking off my shirt and swapping scars and tattoos with a woman I just met. She read my book and shared similar feelings about her mastectomy and recovery. That’s how connection happens. Once you open the floodgates of vulnerability, a wave of acceptance follows. You get to subconsciously say, “Me too,” in a way that begins a friendship.
If you are struggling with any issue today, I guarantee someone is out there wrestling with the same thing. They are hiding in plain sight. To find them, you have to do the scary thing: Tell the truth. Be open about your struggles, and you’ll be surprised who is waiting in the wings to support you.
Where can you be vulnerable and share a challenging part of your life? Go out on the limb and make the connection. There you will find the fruits of friendship. Be brave and find your tribe.
If you want to learn more about the power of vulnerability, watch the highly acclaimed TedTalk by Brene Brown.